There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to Savage.Love. At a party recently I was chatting with a parent who mentioned that he lets his (elementary school age) kids ...

1. I’m a heterosexual woman married to a heterosexual man, and we’ve been together fourteen years. We have two kids. We met in our late 20s, we’re now in our early 40s, and needless to say we are ...