People often see autistic children struggling after school — but they don’t see the preparation that happens before they even walk through the door. Transitions after a full school day can be really overwhelming, so I try to reset the house before my daughter gets home. Small changes to the environment can make a huge difference to how the evening goes. Autism parenting is often about planning ahead for things most people never even notice. If you’re raising an autistic child, you’ll understand
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People often see autistic children struggling after school — but they don’t see the preparation that happens before they even walk through the door. Transitions after a full school day can be really overwhelming, so I try to reset the house before my daughter gets home. Small changes to the environment can make a huge difference to how the evening goes. Autism parenting is often about planning ahead for things most people never even notice. If you’re raising an autistic child, you’ll understand
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Introducing a Puppy to Our Neurodivergent Family
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Introducing a Puppy to Our Neurodivergent Family
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How to Describe Meltdowns on DLA Forms for Autism
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How to Describe Meltdowns on DLA Forms for Autism
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Replying to @ruthmatherslt Over 50 comments said the same thing 😂 So I asked Bethany to SHOW me what she meant because normally that helps when autistic children can’t find the words 😭 Still no clue what she was trying to say 😂 Autism communication moments like this happen all the time in our house 💜 #Autism #AutismParenting #NonVerbal #AutisticChild #SpeechDelay
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Replying to @ruthmatherslt Over 50 comments said the same thing 😂 So I asked Bethany to SHOW me what she meant because normally that helps when autistic children can’t find the words 😭 Still no clue what she was trying to say 😂 Autism communication moments like this happen all the time in our house 💜 #Autism #AutismParenting #NonVerbal #AutisticChild #SpeechDelay
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Challenges of School Transport for Autistic Children
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Challenges of School Transport for Autistic Children
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In this video, I explain why the night-time section of the DLA form is so important — and share 3 strong, copy-ready sentences you can use. Many parents rush or underplay the night section, not realising that regular night-time care, supervision, and disrupted sleep can significantly affect a DLA decision. DLA decision makers look at how often support is needed at night, how long it lasts, and whether an adult has to stay awake or remain alert to keep a child safe. These sentences are designed t
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In this video, I explain why the night-time section of the DLA form is so important — and share 3 strong, copy-ready sentences you can use. Many parents rush or underplay the night section, not realising that regular night-time care, supervision, and disrupted sleep can significantly affect a DLA decision. DLA decision makers look at how often support is needed at night, how long it lasts, and whether an adult has to stay awake or remain alert to keep a child safe. These sentences are designed t
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Amanda's Peak Performance
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Amanda's Peak Performance
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Most parents are told High Rate DLA Mobility is impossible if their autistic child can walk — but that isn’t true. High Rate Mobility isn’t about physical ability. It’s about safety, awareness, and the level of supervision a child needs when out. These are 3 real examples that can count on the DLA form. Save this if you’re applying or renewing — and check the link in my bio for my High Rate Mobility guide and parent support community 💙 #HighRateMobility #disabilitylivingallowance #dla #DLAhelp
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Understanding Waiting Anxiety in Autistic Children
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In this video I explain why children eating non-food items can matter more on the DLA form than many parents realise. Behaviours like this show the level of supervision needed to keep a child safe — which is something DLA decision makers look for when assessing care needs. I also share 3 examples of how to explain this so the DLA understands the level of care involved. #DLA #DisabilityLivingAllowance #AutismParenting #dlahelp #dlaform
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Becki Talks Rage Baiting...
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Essential Tips for Describing Your Child's Climbing Behavior on DLA Forms
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Disabled Facilities Grant for Home Adaptations
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In this video, I explain how “fussy eater” should actually be explained on the DLA form. Calling a child a fussy eater can massively downplay the level of care, supervision, and support involved with eating. DLA decision makers aren’t assessing preference — they’re looking at risk, support, and the extra help required compared to other children the same age. This is how eating needs should be described so the level of support is clear. #autismawareness #disabilitylivingallowance #DLAform #DLAhel
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Understanding Autism Safe Food Logic: A Parent's Perspective
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If your child gets DLA, it’s worth checking what water support schemes your provider offers. 💧 WaterSure – caps your bill if your child needs extra water for things like extra washing, continence needs or medical routines 🧊 Priority Services Register – offers support if your supply is cut off 🏡 Water Grants – some companies clear arrears for families on DLA Every water provider is different, so it’s worth checking what support your company offers. Save this so you don’t forget 💧 #DLA #dlafor
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She was NOT expecting that door to open 😅 That pause… the smile… the confidence boost 💀 Autism parenting keeps you humble. #AutismParent #AutismLife #NeurodivergentFamily #AutismHumour
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The Child Buried Alive by His Father - Part 3 Finale
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Navigating Half Term in an Autism Household
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Before a meltdown, there’s a quiet stage most people don’t see. She’s not crying. She’s not shouting. But I can feel the overwhelm building. So I stay calm and repeat the same words. Sometimes for 40 minutes. Not to control her. To help her regulate. #AutismParent #NeurodivergentFamily #AutismSupport
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