When I talk to divorce attorneys—especially those who work primarily with women—they often say the same thing: menopause can play a role in the breakdown of a marriage. Not always. But more often than we acknowledge. The mood changes, sleep deprivation, brain fog, loss of libido, and identity shifts can add up—and when those symptoms are ignored or dismissed, it can shake the foundation of even the strongest relationship. But here’s the other side: menopause can also be the first time a woman tr